Behold Thy Mother

 Mother of the Church

And thou shalt say in thy heart:
Who hath begotten these?
I was barren and brought not forth,
led away, and captive:
and who hath brought up these?
I was destitute and alone:
and these, where were they?
Isaiah 49, 21

GIVE praise, O thou barren, that bearest not:
sing forth praise, and make a joyful noise,
thou that didst not travail with child:
for many are the children of the desolate,
more than of her that hath a husband,
saith the Lord.
Isaiah 54, 1

When Jesus therefore had seen his mother and the disciple standing whom he loved,
he saith to his mother: Woman, behold thy son. After that, he saith to the disciple:
Behold thy mother. And from that hour, the disciple took her to his own.
John 19, 26-27

Of all the enigmatic statements in sacred Scripture, the one made by Jesus to his beloved disciple from the Cross is no less mysterious and challenging to interpret or understand. Our Lord says to the Disciple: “Behold your mother.” By the word mother, Jesus has more of a biblical sense in mind. His act of entrusting his mother to the disciple rests on the status and importance of motherhood in Israelite society. For the Jews, motherhood was more a social edifice than a biological expedient. Biblically, it was redefined as something that embraced all of God’s chosen people, given the historical circumstances surrounding their covenant with God and His promise to Abraham.

For instance, Ruth was enjoined by her mother-in-law Naomi to lay at the foot of the bed of her lord Boaz, who happened to be a relative of her deceased husband. Under the law of Moses, a close relation was expected to marry a widow to perpetuate the family name and keep all the assets, such as land, within the family (Deut 25:5-10). It was important that when a man died without having a son, a relative should marry a widow so that a son should be born within the family and its name carried on (Lk 20:27-40). Now, Ruth was childless when her husband died. But after she had married Boaz, the couple had a firstborn son whom they named Obed. The family name could now be carried on, and all the property kept within the family.

Thus, Ruth’s motherhood was not merely centered on giving birth to and nurturing children within the immediate family but was redefined in terms of a broader social scope that concerned the interests of the extended family and its preservation. Still, in Judaic religious thought, her motherhood extended even further by embracing all the children of Israel. Having given birth to Obed, Ruth did, in a sense, give birth to David. Her grandson Jesse begot the King of Israel. Providentially, Ruth’s motherhood extended to King David, from whose royal line the Messiah would come by being born of the Virgin Mary (2 Sam 7:12-13), whose dual maternity is prefigured in this Hebrew matriarch among others.

Leila Leah Bronner (Stories of Biblical MothersMaternal Power in the Hebrew Bible, University Press of America, 2004) has introduced the biblical concept that she coined “Metaphorical Mother.” This term refers to a woman who figuratively gives birth to and nurtures an entire population of children who are hers symbolically, if not also biologically. Ruth metaphorically gives birth to the people of Israel, who would be ruled by the Messiah by her biological ties with him through Obed, Jesse, and King David. Socially, she contributes to the birth and growth of a blossoming nation and the advancement of its people. Similarly, Sarah gives birth to Isaac, who in turn begets Jacob, who represents Israel. By giving birth to Isaac, she does, in a sense, give birth to the nation of Israel, and by doing so, her motherhood is redefined (Gen 12:2; 46:3). Yet Sarah’s maternity isn’t intended to be confined to national boundaries – not according to the Divine plan.

We see that all three of God’s promises to Abraham are fulfilled in their primary context in the Old Testament. In their secondary signification, they are fulfilled in the New Testament. All the families (nations) of the earth that shall be blessed together with the saved remnant of Israel as children (seed) of Abraham comprise the Gentiles who have been called to turn from their pagan iniquities now that Christ has risen from the dead, having reconciled mankind to God (Acts 3:24-26). Only those of faith (a steadfast love of God and trust in Him) are the genuine offspring of Abraham – both Jew and Gentile alike (Gal 3:7-9). There is “neither Jew nor Greek” among those who have been baptized in Christ and have “put on Christ” by conducting their lives in faithfulness to God’s commandments. All who are faithful to God, by walking in the light as our Lord is in the light, are children of Abraham, not only the Jews who have been circumcised (Gal 3: 26-29).

Thus, the primary fulfillment of God’s three promises to Abraham, including Sarah’s important maternal role, finds its secondary fulfillment in Jesus with his mother, Mary. Just as Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob prefigure Jesus and his Church, so does Sarah prefigure Mary, the Matriarch of the new and everlasting Covenant established through the precious blood of her divine Son.

That the first Jewish converts to the Christian faith perceived this link between the two women is evident by the parallel St. Luke draws between the birth of Isaac and the birth of Jesus. In Genesis 11, we have Sarah, the free wife of Abraham and mother of the promised son, whom she gives birth to miraculously, seeing she was barren and past the age of having children (Gen 17:17-18;18:10). It is by God’s command that he is to be called Isaac (Gen 17:19). As the free wife of Abraham, Sarah stands in opposition to her slave woman Hagar, one of Abraham’s concubines. Because Sarah is barren, she advises that Abraham and her servant Hagar have a son whom they named Ishmael. Still, Sarah later demands that he must never have a share in her son Isaac’s inheritance and should be sent away with his mother because of his foul behavior (Gen 21:8-10). Isaac is destined to become the father of a great nation, Israel in the person of his son Jacob.

In the Gospel of Luke, we have Mary, the mother of the promised Son, who is the rightful heir and Head of the kingdom of heaven. She is the free spouse of the Holy Spirit, through whom she has been endowed with a fullness of grace (Lk 1:28). The purity of her soul and freedom from all stains of sin magnifies the Lord (Lk 1:46). Together with the free Son of promise, she is at enmity with Satan and stands against all his offspring: sinful and wicked humanity (Gen 3:15). Mary is a virgin but, nevertheless, miraculously conceives and bears her only son Jesus (Lk 1:35). And not unlike Sarah, she questions how she could possibly conceive him, seeing that she does not have sexual relations with a man: “I know not man” (Lk 1:34). Yet, she is to conceive and bear a son who shall be called Jesus by God’s command (Lk 1:31). He shall rule all nations from the throne he inherits from his ancestor David, and his kingdom shall never end. As Isaac has begotten Israel, Jesus shall beget the Church and reign over Jacob’s descendants, his co-heirs, forever (Lk 1:32-33).

The Biblical theme of the free Woman of Promise occasionally appears in sacred Scripture from Genesis 3 to Revelation 12. God first chose Sarah to be a matriarch of the Israelites (the Matriarch of the Covenant) and not merely the biological mother of Isaac and maternal head of the extended family. She is called to participate actively in collaboration with God for the birth of a nation from which the Messiah will come to reconcile humanity to God. Other matriarchs of the Hebrews include the heroines who faithfully contribute to the salvation of God’s chosen people by collaborating with Him to liberate them from bondage and impending death at the hands of their enemy invaders or captors.

The three more highly acclaimed of these women in the Judaic tradition are Esther, Jael, and Judith. Along with Sarah, they prefigure the Virgin Mary in her redefined maternal role in the economy of salvation, whose valiant deeds find their ultimate fulfillment in Mary’s association with her divine Son in his redemptive work. Both Jael and Judith strike victorious blows for Israel by severing the heads of the chieftains of their enemies, Sisera and Holofernes, respectively, under God’s providential direction at appointed times, when God wills to restore His alienated people in His grace by the oath he had sworn to Abraham (Gen 22:15-18). And because of their saving acts in union with God, these valiant women are praised and proclaimed blessed (eulogeo) above all women together with Him, as all generations of the Jews shall follow suit (Jdgs 5:24-27; Jdt 13:18-20; 15:9-10).

Mary crushes the head of the serpent, which is Satan, in collaboration with God when she humbly and faithfully consents to be the mother of the divine Messiah and suffers at the foot of the Cross in union with the afflictions of her Son to make temporal satisfaction to God for the sins of alienated humanity and help liberate it from the slavery of sin and the power of the hostile enemy (Lk 1:38; 2:35). By her Fiat, she brings the living Font of redemptive grace into the world, by whose merits all people shall be reconciled to God and restored to friendship with Him. Through Mary’s womb, God fulfills His third promise to Abraham of regenerating mankind in Christ and delivering all souls from eternal spiritual death and separation from the Beatific Vision of God. In commendation of Mary’s faith in charity and grace, Elizabeth pronounces her kinswoman blessed (eulogeo) above all women together with the fruit of her womb (Lk 1:42), and all generations of the Christian faithful shall as well because of the great things God has done for her in their collaboration together (Lk 1:48-49).

Esther is captured and enslaved with her people by King Ahasuerus (Xerxes), but because of her exceptional beauty, he chooses her from among all the Jewish maidens to be his wife and to reign with him as Queen of Persia (Est 2:1-18). She abhors the thought of being his wife, not only because he is an evil Gentile who has enslaved the Israelites, but also because she is a righteous woman who observes the Torah and is married to Mordechai, according to the Talmud. But the king forces her to be his wife and to lay with him whenever he summons her to his bed chamber. Meanwhile, all the Hebrew captives have been condemned to death through the schemes of an enemy, the king’s highest official, Haman the Agagite, except for Esther because of her marriage to the king. After her heartfelt prayer to God (Est C:12-30, NAB), and taking advantage of her singular privilege, Queen Esther manages to foil Haman’s plot, despite risking her own life, and saves her people from certain death. In his wrath, the king orders his highest official to be hanged by the neck on the gallows (Est 7:6-10).

Being Esther’s anti-type, Mary, alone of her race, isn’t subjected to the corruption of physical death and the dark prospect of eternal spiritual death because of original sin, brought about by the machinations of the Devil (Gen 3:14). God has exempted her from being born under the law of sin and death by preserving her free from the stain of original sin so that she shall be the worthiest of mothers for the Son and assist Him in defeating the world’s chief enemy Satan as to deliver mankind from its slavery to sin and impending death. Through the Fiat of the faithful and valiant daughter of God the Father, the King of kings claims the final victory over the chief enemy of God’s people and his works (Rom 8:37; 1 Cor 15:57; 2 Cor 2:14, etc.). Now in Heaven, Mary dons her crown and reigns enthroned as Queen together with our Lord and King, as the faithful continue to make war with the dragon in their spiritual battle against it together with her (Rev 12:17). Our Lady has been chosen by our Lord and King because she is the fairest woman of our human race (Lk 1:28, 42).

Behold thy Son, Behold thy Mother

When Jesus addresses his sorrowful mother from the Cross, he calls her “Woman.” Jewish men of his time in Palestine honorably called their mothers Immah (Aramaic), especially in public observance of Mosaic law. However, Jesus refers to his mother, Mary, as a mother to someone when he says to the Disciple: “Behold your mother.” So, Jesus doesn’t think of Mary as his natural mother when he speaks to her and then to the Disciple, but rather as a mother to others in a spiritual sense. Our Lord is addressing his most blessed mother in a biblical sense. The truth is when Jesus calls his mother “Woman,” he is alluding to her as being the free Woman of Promise foretold to the serpent by God Himself in the Garden of Eden, she who shall crush its head by her faith working through love for the spiritual benefit of humanity (Gen 3:15; Lk 11:27-28).

Indeed, our Lord is affirming his mother to be in her person the culmination of all the Hebrew Matriarchs who have gone before her, beginning with Sarah and the promises God made to Abraham, of which his wife had a vital role to play in the economy of salvation in anticipation of the Incarnation. It is from the Cross, while his precious blood is being poured out for the remission of sin that Jesus declares his mother to be the Matriarch of the New and Everlasting Covenant and the spiritual mother or second Eve of redeemed humanity.

It is from the Cross, of all places, where our Lord redefines Mary’s motherhood, for through the Cross, she acts as the Mother of all Nations should by nourishing fallen humanity with the redemptive fruit of her womb – the body and blood of her divine Son, by which all souls may be reborn to a new life in the Spirit. As the caregiver of all human souls, Mary feeds and nourishes her spiritual offspring, the “true manna come down from heaven” and “the bread of life” (Jn 6:35, 51, 58), with the Cross standing ever-present before her. Mary’s maternal saving office isn’t only affirmed and ratified by Jesus as he speaks to his mother and the disciple from the Cross.

The Church was born in Calvary, so Mary’s saving office was established there until the end of this age. As Mother of the Church, Mary exercises her new maternal role by nourishing and strengthening all Christ’s disciples with the “Word for childhood” and the graces her Son has merited for them. The filial bond that Jesus forms between his mother and the disciple relates to his Messianic reign and all he has accomplished for humanity. His words to his mother Mary and the Disciple point towards his resurrection, ascension into heaven, and the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost (Acts 2:1-4).

The couplet “Behold your son – Behold your mother” bears eschatological significance. So, when Jesus says to the Disciple, “Behold your mother,” he isn’t merely asking a friend to do him one last favor before he departs. Jesus does not primarily or exclusively mean that the Disciple should look after his mother once he is gone, though he does have her well-being in mind. This couplet's underlying force and structure dismiss the idea of such an ordinary or practical last will and testament. We mustn’t forget that every word (dabar) spoken by our Lord recorded in the Gospels carries soteriological weight, either explicitly or implicitly.

In any event, being aware of how people in his time were affected by the last words of a dying person or someone who foresaw his approaching death, John constructs this couplet in such a forceful and imperative way that does not smack of a simple request for a favor from a dear friend, but instead of Divine providence. He draws his readers’ attention to something of great soteriological and eschatological importance, which is to bear on the divine plan (economy) of salvation. Jesus certainly has the welfare of his mother at the back of his mind because of his perfect love for her and in honor of her. Still, he has chosen to place her in his disciple’s care from the Cross since it is from the Cross he wills to redefine her motherhood, given his mother’s final perseverance in faith and her vital role in the redemption, which required that she take up her cross together with her Son.

It is on Mount Moriah where God redefines Abraham’s fatherhood at the altar of the holocaust because of his obedient act of faith (Gen 22:16-18), and it is on this same mount, also called Golgotha, where God incarnate redefines Mary’s motherhood from the Cross because of her faith in charity and grace. Jesus has her moral participation in his redemptive work in mind. Mary’s spiritual motherhood of the redeemed has its raison d’etre in her co-redemptive role, beginning at the Annunciation.

The couplet “Woman, behold your son – Behold your mother” has a flavor of absoluteness. It is pronounced directly and borders on the imperative that essentially is a Divine decree. The first word (dabar) that Jesus utters while in agony for our sins is “Woman,” which immediately draws our attention to Mary, the mother of Jesus, at the foot of the Cross. The word redefines her motherhood and defines who she is in the Divine economy of salvation. The temporal circumstance Mary finds herself in as the mother of Jesus is the least of the Evangelist’s concerns. The author first draws our attention to the fact that she is the woman promised by God who will crush the head of the serpent by her faith in collaboration with God. Only then is our attention drawn to the Disciple to clarify what it is that Jesus means by calling his mother “Woman” instead of “Mother” (Immah), and how she relates to all the faithful in the order of grace. This device is known as constructive or synthetic parallelism in modern biblical exegesis.

Therefore, what is more significant than Mary being the mother of Jesus and having to be looked after once he is gone is her title, which denotes her new maternal and spiritual filial relationship with the Disciple. Now that Jesus has accomplished his mission and has cast the Accuser from heaven, Mary’s motherhood to Jesus recedes into the background. Mary does not assume the new role of being the mother of the Disciple after he takes her to his home (not that John needs an adopted mother in the ordinary sense), but she does at the foot of the Cross together with him standing there since it is because of the Cross that she becomes his mother, having had a painful intercessory role to play for the temporal remission of sin in her Son’s redemptive work.

Of all Christ’s disciples who had abandoned Jesus when he was betrayed and arrested in the Garden of Gethsemane, only John overcame his fear of being arrested. He mustered the moral courage to stand beneath the Cross with Mary, the mother of his Lord. The Disciple, therefore, becomes a spiritual offspring of the mother of Jesus, as she becomes his mother because of his faith. From the Cross, the Son designates his mother, Mary, to be the Mother of the faithful – her Son’s true disciples (Rev 12:17). Of the Eleven, only John accompanied the Mother of their Lord to the Cross. At the same time, the rest had given their Master up for dead, despite what he had already prophesied to them on their way to Jerusalem before his arrest (Mt 20:18; Mk 10:33; Lk 24:7). So, John’s presence beneath the Cross close to Mary is symbolic rather than purely incidental.

While the image of Eve provides a robust background for the redefinition of Mary’s motherhood, John also employs the Old Testament imagery of Mother Zion. And in doing so, he captures our attention to Mary and the Disciple with no name. The fact that he is present with Mary at the Cross indicates that he, too, has a role to assume, which God wills to reveal. This role is immeasurably more significant than that of a caretaker. Indeed, Jesus wishes to place his mother in no better hands, but he chooses to do so on this occasion to disclose something vitally essential to God’s plan of salvation. Thus, Mary is to be the caretaker of the Disciple’s soul as the pre-eminent moral channel of her Son’s grace to aid him (and all his associates) in his apostolic ministry.

​The more reasonable explanation of the Disciple’s presence must be that he represents the entire Christian community of believers or the Mystical Body of Christ. Such an idea rests on a biblical mindset that scholars call “corporate personality,” which originated from biblical scholar H Wheeler Robinson (Corporate Personality in Ancient Israel, Edinburgh: T&T Clark Publishers, 1993). The beloved disciple is a corporate representation of the Church, which shall include even the Gentiles, just as Jacob is a corporate representation of all the faithful people of Israel who prefigure the faithful citizens of the New Jerusalem to come down from heaven (Rev 12:1; 21:2). In the biblical sense of motherhood, then, the Disciple is as much a son of Mary as Jacob is a son of Sarah, the mother of Isaac who prefigures Christ, and the Israelites the sons and daughters of Mother Zion – the second Eve in classical Jewish theology. Yet, for the early Hebrew Christians, the mother of their Lord wasn’t their spiritual mother in a simply metaphorical sense. She was someone whom they could personally relate to as much as they could her divine Son. Mary was much more to them than a symbol or representation (Lk 1:43).

For I heard a cry as of a woman in labor,
anguish as of one bringing forth her first child,
the cry of daughter Zion gasping for breath,
stretching out her hands,
“Woe is me! I am fainting before killers!”
Jeremiah 4, 31

The sorrowful scene at the Cross is Old Testament imagery and symbolism related to prophecy and the Judaic traditions. Isa 49:21, 54:1-3. and 66:7-11 carry the theme of Mother Zion amid sorrow over the loss of her children when suddenly she is given a new and large family restored in God’s grace, which is cause for rejoicing (Lk 1:46-49; Zeph 3:14-17). In the words of Raymond E. Brown: “The sorrowful scene at the foot of the Cross represents the birth pangs by which the Spirit of salvation is brought forth (Isa 26:17-18) and handed over (Jn 29:30). In becoming the mother of the beloved disciple (The Christian), Mary is symbolically evocative of Lady Zion who, after birth pangs (interior agony or sorrow) brings forth a new people in joy” (The Gospel According to John, Garden City: Double Day & Co., 1966). Indeed, in the figure of Daughter Zion, Mary can compare her former desolation beneath the Cross with the bustling activity of returnees from exile filling her towns and cities. The returnees from the Babylonian exile foreshadow all believers in Christ who have been freed from the bondage of sin and impending eternal death.

Paul D. Hanson adds: “Zion is not destined to grieve because of the loss she has endured, viz., the death of her Son. Instead, she will be able to compare her former desolation with the bustling activity of returnees (from exile) filling her towns and cities” (Isaiah 40-66A Bible Commentary, Westminster John Knox Press, 1995). According to the author, the three-fold references to the children represent repopulated Zion. The returnees from exile foreshadow all believers in Christ who have been freed from the bondage of sin and impending eternal death, having been ransomed by the precious blood of Christ, but at the reparative cost of his blessed mother’s sorrow and anguish beneath the Cross (Rev 12:4).

Enlarge the place of thy tent,
and stretch out the skins of thy tabernacles,
spare not: lengthen thy cords,
and strengthen thy stakes.
For thou shalt pass on to the right hand, and to the left:
and thy seed shall inherit the Gentiles,
and shall inhabit the desolate cities.
Isaiah 54, 2-3

The demonstrative particle “Behold” (Gk. Idou, Heb. Hinneh) is sometimes used as a predicator of existence, something that looks to a new state of being (the redefinition of Mary’s motherhood). The hinneh clauses emphasize the immediacy of the situation (the crucifixion) and may be used to clarify things. For instance, “Behold (here is) Bilhah, my servant. Sleep with her so that she can bear children for me and that I too can have a family by her” (Gen 30:3). Significantly, most hinneh clauses occur in direct speech. They introduce a fact or something actual on which a subsequent statement or command is based and must be closely observed. What Jesus says to the Disciple is, “Here is your mother,” meaning she is as much of a mother to him as Bilhah is a servant of Rachel – and Mary, the handmaid of the Lord: “Behold, I am (here is) the handmaid of the Lord” (Lk 1:38).

Then, Mary did not become John’s mother figuratively, as in being like a mother of his by living under the same roof with him and managing the household. She became his genuine mother, along with all Christ’s other disciples, but in a spiritual and mystical sense. Mary became as much the mother of John and all her Son’s disciples as she did God’s handmaid and spouse of the Holy Spirit by the will of God.

Your sun will never set again,
and your moon will wane no more;
the LORD will be your everlasting light,
and your days of sorrow will end.
Then all your people will be righteous
and they will possess the land forever.
They are the shoot I have planted,
the work of my hands,
for the display of my splendor.
Isaiah 60, 20-21

Finally, we have the statement “Behold your mother” occurring in Matthew 12:47 and Mark 3:32. The theological theme in these two verses resembles that which we have in John 19:25-27. Both deal with what it means to be a “brethren of Jesus.” The crux of these passages is that the ties of obedience to the will of God take precedence over those of blood kinship. Although Jesus does not deny or intend to belittle his kinship with his mother, he nonetheless subordinates it to a higher bond of kinship that transcends all biological ties. Jesus regards Mary as his genuine mother more for her faith in God than their physiological ties since it is a more tremendous blessing to her (Lk 11:27-28). Our Lord tacitly has the Annunciation and Crucifixion in mind when he answers the crowd after his attention is drawn to the presence of his mother and kin outside. They represent the extension of boundaries and point to the inclusion of the Gentiles in the New Dispensation of grace. Our heavenly Father’s family was never intended to be confined to Israel and to consist of only the Jews.

The Kingdom of Heaven imposes demands on the personal commitment of the disciple, which must often supersede natural family ties and even ethnic bonds. Our Lord’s reply indicates that he regards his mother to be more of a mother to him by being a woman of faith, without which she could never have become his natural mother in the hypostatic order of his incarnation, nor thereby the mother of all his disciples in the spiritual family of God. Mary herself is as much a disciple of her Son as John and the other apostles are, and by being a fellow disciple (the first and foremost), she can be their spiritual mother to lead them in corroboration with her mystical spouse, the Holy Spirit in their great commission after her Son’s ascension.

These two verses, therefore, introduce the image of a new family that takes on an eschatological aspect and rises above the national bond that connects the group of listeners encircling Jesus. These passages are a prelude to our Lord’s intentions when he addresses his mother and the disciple from the Cross. There, he uses the same hinneh clause to underscore how his mother, Mary, is truly a mother in the economy of salvation so that there should be no misunderstanding. It is not that she shall be like a mother to the Disciple, but instead, she will be his actual mother from then on in the Kingdom of Heaven, as he shall be her son as much as Jesus is physically, though in a spiritual way. The Church is our mother, as Mary is a mother to us, but only in an allegorical sense. Our Blessed Lady is our personal mother, having conceived and given birth to Jesus, our Lord and brother (Rom 8:29).

In establishing this family of faith during his active ministry, Jesus began redefining Israel as Mother Zion's figure with his mother, Mary, in mind. The nation shall no longer be defined by national boundaries or birthright but by faith, as the New Zion or Church shall extend beyond its borders and receive the Gentiles into God’s family kingdom. This vision of Zion goes beyond the metaphorical. It reaches its secondary fulfillment in the Blessed Virgin Mary, Our Lady of Sorrows, and Mother of the Church, in which all the faithful may relate to their mother on a personal level, as much as they do relate with their Lord and brother, her resurrected divine Son, in filial prayer and devotion, as members of His Mystical Body.

“For if Mary, as those declare who with sound mind extol her, had no other son but
Jesus, and yet Jesus says to His mother, Woman, behold thy son,’ and not Behold
you have this son also,’ then He virtually said to her, Lo, this is Jesus, whom thou
didst bear.’ Is it not the case that everyone who is perfect lives himself no longer, but
Christ lives in him; and if Christ lives in him, then it is said of him to Mary, Behold thy
son Christ.’”
Origen, Commentary on John, I:6 (A.D. 232)

So, the ransomed of the LORD shall return,
and come to Zion with singing;
everlasting joy shall be upon their heads;
they shall obtain joy and gladness,
and sorrow and sighing shall flee away.
Isaiah 51,11

Salve Regina

The Disciple Took Her to His Own

 Mother of the Church

Who has heard of such a thing?
Who has seen such things?
Shall a land be born in one day?
Shall a nation be delivered in one moment?
Yet as soon as Zion was in labor
she delivered her children.
Isaiah 66, 8

The child’s mother said,
“As the Lord lives, and as your soul lives,
I will not leave you.”
So he arose and followed her.
2 Kings 4, 3-4

When Jesus therefore had seen his mother and the disciple standing whom he loved,
he saith to his mother: Woman, behold thy son. After that, he saith to the disciple:
Behold thy mother. And from that hour, the disciple took her to his own.
John 19, 26-27 (DRB)

All true disciples of Christ, those who faithfully keep God’s commandments and bear witness to Jesus in their lives, take their Blessed Mother Mary to their own or accept her as their own mother in the depths of their hearts, as she leads the way in the order of grace, taking them by the hand to their heavenly home. Mary must have assured John that she would never leave his side while his soul lived. She likely took him by the hand and led the way to his home, never to separate herself from him during his apostolic ministry until her dormition. The Gospel of John bears testimony to the traditional belief of the infant Church that our Lord entrusted his mother to his faithful bride, which is the Church.

In the Roman catacomb of St. Agnes, an extant fresco depicts Mary between the apostles Peter and Paul with her arms outstretched towards them. The image of these two chief apostles situated together has always symbolized the Church from the earliest time. Thus, it is evident that the early Christians invoked Mary as the Mother of the Church by the third century. The early tradition of Mary being the spiritual mother of all her Son’s faithful disciples was just as vibrant in the nascent church as it has been until now in the same Catholic Church.

Jesus redefines Mary’s motherhood from the Cross. He does not renounce his filial bond with her but adds a new dimension to her maternal role in the economy of salvation. This should explain why he has chosen not to place his mother in the care of the Disciple until this pivotal moment in salvation history. Mary’s motherhood must be redefined at the Cross because it draws its raison d’etre from her intimate association with her divine Son in his work of redemption (Lk. 2:34-35). By her suffering, in union with the suffering of her Son, our Blessed Mother helps give new life in grace to all fallen Eve’s offspring like a woman in labor.

It appears no names are mentioned, save the appellations “Woman” and “Disciple” to underscore how it is that Mary is a mother to John and him her son. The beloved Disciple represents Christ’s disciples who belong to his Church, and Mary is their spiritual mother in the order of grace. Not unlike Mother Zion, she must now “enlarge [her] tent” and “strengthen [her] stakes” because of the sudden influx of returnees from exile or slavery to sin (Isa. 54:2-3). Jesus has made his blessed mother, Mary, the mother of all people who live their lives in the state of grace, by saying to his mother, “Woman, behold your son,” and to the Disciple, “Behold your mother.” Jesus means much more than that his beloved disciple should look after his mother in his home after he has gone to the Father. He certainly isn’t making a practical request in literary fashion, not that it has any significant bearing from a soteriological perspective.

We mustn’t overlook the symbolic importance of the expression “the disciple” used by the Evangelist when referring to himself. He intends to identify himself with all faithful followers of our Lord. Like Jacob, who represents Israel, the Disciple is a “corporate personality.” Mary is the spiritual mother of all Christ’s disciples. She has adopted us no less than the Father has by our partaking of the divine life in faith (Eph. 1:5; 2 Pet.1:3-4). In his divinity, our Lord is the Son of the Father, and in his sacred humanity, he is the Son of Mary, his mother. We cannot be adopted sons and daughters of the Father while excluding our spiritual mother, Mary, who was overshadowed by the Holy Spirit, since all the faithful are true brothers and sisters of Christ (Lk. 1:35; Rom. 8:29).

Through Mary’s womb, the baptized are “a new creation in Christ; the old is gone, and the new is here” (2 Cor. 5:17). They are no longer the seed of fallen Adam but of the promised “Woman” and advocate of Eve who, in her original innocence, helped forfeit the life of grace for her offspring (Gen. 3:13, 15). This was how the early Church understood the Gospel narrative, which is evident in the teaching of St. Augustine: “Therefore, this woman alone, not only in spirit but also in body, is both Mother and Virgin. She is Mother in the Spirit, but not of our Head, the Saviour himself, for she is spiritually born from him, since all who believe in him, among whom she too is to be counted, are rightly called children of the Bridegroom. Rather, she is clearly the Mother of his members … because she cooperated by her charity, so faithful Christian members might be born in the Church” (De sancta virginitate 6).

In other words, the Bishop of Hippo means what St. Irenaeus professes in the late 2nd century: “The Word will become flesh, and the Son of God the son of man—the Pure One opening purely that pure womb, which generates men unto God. (Against Heresies, 4, 33, 12). The designation of Mary as the New Eve or spiritual “mother of all the living,” and thereby the Mother of the Church, was part of a Marian tradition for centuries leading up to the time of Augustine. St. Epiphanius wrote in the 4th century in his defense of the Catholic and Apostolic faith: “True it is . . . the whole race of man upon earth was born of Eve; but it is from Mary that Life was truly born to the world, so that by giving birth to the Living One, Mary might also become the Mother of all the living” (Against Eighty Heresies, 78, 9). The new birth of the Christian faithful originates from the hypostatic order of Christ’s incarnation, which could not have occurred without the Virgin Mary’s moral participation in the joint activity of the Holy Trinity. ​

In this sense, all our Lord's faithful disciples and brethren proceed from the same sanctified womb he did as reborn offspring of Eve. Mary stands with all those who are born again at the baptismal font. Father Hugo Rahner (Our Lady and the Church: Zaccheus Press) tells us that Baptism is “forever a continuation of the birth of God-made man, born of the Virgin, conceived by the Holy Spirit.” He adds that “the Church as the Mystical Body of Christ is ever born again in the sacrament of Baptism” (1 Cor. 12:13). The faithful are thus one mystical body in Christ, the Head of this body. They have been born children of God and the Virgin Mary by being conceived mystically in her womb through the power of the Holy Spirit and God incarnate, who was conceived physically by supernatural means. The mystery of Mary in the economy of salvation intertwines with the mystery of the Church, so the sacrament of Baptism has a Marian character.

In the prayer for the Blessing of the Font at the Easter Vigil, the faithful acknowledge the Church’s power of rebirth through the Holy Spirit and her custodial endowment with grace. It is the Holy Spirit, through His hidden presence, that bestows sanctifying power to the water of baptism. A holy child is conceived in the womb of the baptismal font and reborn in the Spirit just as Christ is conceived in the womb of Mary and made the God-man by the power of the Holy Spirit. The divine womb of the baptismal font is as immaculate as the womb of the Blessed Virgin Mary. New heavenly offspring are conceived in holiness and reborn new creatures in the likeness of their Lord and Brother Jesus. The Church is called Mother because, like Mary, she nourishes her offspring with grace and gives them a new life so they all grow as one family in God in one spiritual childhood.

Mary is the Mother of the Church, comprised of all members of her divine Son’s mystical body, for she is the prototype of the Church. The Church receives her character from the Blessed Virgin Mary. As a corporate entity, the Church finds its fulfillment in the person of Mary. Mary first realizes the Church when she declares: “Be it done to me according to thy word” (Lk. 1:38). For mankind to be conceived in the womb of the Church, Christ must first be conceived in his mother's womb. All catechumens must first receive Jesus in their hearts before they can be conceived in the womb of the baptismal water, but only if Mary physically conceives Jesus after she has first conceived him in her heart. In this sense, Mary is the Mother of the Church through the Incarnation. Having conceived and given birth to Jesus, both Head and Body, our Blessed Lady has conceived and given birth to its members spiritually – her Son’s brothers and sisters (Rom. 8:29).

ἔλαβεν ὁ μαθητὴς αὐτὴν εἰς τὰ ἴδια.

Returning to the Gospel of John, in which we read, “the Disciple took her to his own,” the Greek word for “took” is lambanō (λαμβάνω). This term connotes “take in the hand,” “take hold of, grasp.” It also encompasses taking away, taking up, receiving, or removing without force. Moreover, the term has mental or spiritual aspects when it is translated as “make one’s own,” “apprehend,” or “comprehend,” as Jerome has translated it in the Latin Vulgate. Roman Catholic Biblical scholar John McHugh builds upon the spiritual connotation of the word. He argues that the Disciple accepts Mary as his mother and as part of the “spiritual legacy bequeathed to him by his Lord.” Using the verb lambanō indicates something important that moves beyond the death scene being played out on Golgotha and is connected to it. Thus, the verb indicates something which has soteriological significance.

The author says, “If we carefully notice John’s vocabulary, a more meaningful rendering emerges. In the Fourth Gospel, the verb lambánō has two senses. When applied to material things, it means simply ‘to take hold of,’ ‘to pick up,’ ‘to grasp,’ etc. (e.g. 6.11; 12.13; 13.12; 19.23, 40); when applied to immaterial things, it means “to accept,” or ‘to welcome,’ usually as a gift from God (e.g. his witness, 3.11; his word, 17.8; his Spirit, 14.17; 1 John 2.27). Secondly, the phrase eis ta idea, which certainly can mean “to one’s own home” (in a purely physical sense), can also mean ‘among one’s own spiritual possessions’ (compare John 8.44 and 15.19, in Greek). The phrase is found in the prologue with this double meaning of ‘physical home’ and ‘spiritual possession’ and in close conjunction with the verb ‘to accept or welcome.’ ‘He came to what was his own… and to all who accepted him, he gave them the power to become children of God’ (John 1.12-13). John 19.27 demands a translation that includes the purely physical and the deeper, spiritual sense” (The Mother of Jesus in the New Testament, New York: Doubleday, 1975). The use of the verb lambanō indicates something important that moves beyond the death scene being played out on Golgotha but is connected to it. Thus, the verb indicates something which has soteriological and eschatological significance.

In other words, this spiritual or cognitive connotation implies that there is a tacit understanding that occurs between Jesus, Mary, and the Disciple, which must do with something more significant than the fact Jesus is about to die as anyone else might by being crucified and consequently must leave his widowed mother behind who is in dire need of being looked after. What is significant isn’t merely the temporal death of Jesus and any temporal circumstances that might ensue because of it, but rather what shall entail eschatologically from it as one of many consummations and higher expressions of his death, having soteriological benefits for human souls concerning our Lord’s mother in the hypostatic order of Christ’s incarnation.

The Mother and the Beloved Disciple thus understand that this event marks a beginning – the start of something new that shall continue in this life and eternally in the Kingdom of Heaven. The original Greek text literally reads “to the own” (εἰς τὰ ἴδια), though modern Protestant and Catholic Bible English translations have “to his own home.” This Greek phrase means much more than the Disciple taking Mary to his home to look after her. Instead, it means the Disciple took her into his heart as a loving son of hers in their newly established spiritual filial bond. He received her as her spiritual offspring in the deepest core of his being. Indeed, Mary did not have to become an adopted mother for John to look after her as a caregiver. Jesus wasn’t speaking figuratively of her. She became the Disciple’s very own mother in the family of God spiritually and mystically, as much as Mary was morally the spouse of the Holy Spirit, having been overshadowed by Him and begetting Jesus together.

John is more mystical and symbolic in his literary style than the Synoptic Gospels' authors. His narratives contain deeper meanings and lend more theological insight into the Divine mysteries than what appears at first glance in God's written word, so they should often be read in a spiritual sense (1 Cor. 2:4-5). The Evangelist presents to his readers in the Crucifixion scene a reciprocal re-enactment of what has transpired in the Garden of Eden. We have the two principal protagonists: Jesus (the new Adam) and his mother, Mary (the new Eve).

In the background, the Disciple represents all people who have cast off the old self and put on the new. Jesus and his mother are in the act of finally crushing the head of the serpent by their obedience to the will of God and undoing what it has worked since the beginning (Gen. 3:13-15). Unlike Adam and Eve, neither succumbs to the serpent's temptation. Jesus does not come down from the cross and save himself in opposition to the will of his heavenly Father (Mt. 27:40). Mary is valiantly standing at the foot of the Cross, enduring terrible sorrow at the cost of her joy in being the mother of our Lord, which fulfills the portentous words of Simeon that point to her crucial trial of faith on which rests her motherhood of mankind (Lk. 2:35).

On Golgotha, Mary perseveres in that same faith she possessed at the Annunciation, a total surrender to God out of pure love and humility, which helped make the Incarnation happen. She joyfully became the mother of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ in the shadow of the Cross; she became our mother and merited her dual maternity by standing beneath the Cross at this crucial point, sorrowfully giving birth to us like a woman in labor (Rev. 12:2).

The imagery of the Gospel narrative dismisses any temporal and morally practical explanation of Jesus’ words to his mother and the Disciple. What Jesus has in mind when he addresses his mother and the Disciple is something of great soteriological and eschatological importance. John the Evangelist has the Mother figuratively stand at the foot of the Cross – the Tree of victory over the serpent – as the moral channel of her divine Son’s grace, which Adam forfeited by listening to Eve, who thus morally contributed to the fall of mankind and the loss of the original state of holiness and justice. In contrast, Mary morally contributes to mankind’s spiritual regeneration and justification by her perfect obedience to the will of God and willingness to suffer in union with her Son for man’s transgressions against Him.

His Gospel message is that the Son (the new Adam) wills to dispense his saving grace first and foremost through the mediation of his mother and helpmate (Gen. 2:18). Our Lord does not wish to act alone in his work of redemption but rather desires that his mother is with him by her moral cooperation. And so, in this capacity, Mary has become the mother of all his disciples in the Spirit and, of course, redeemed humanity. She has nourished the faithful with the blessings they have received through God’s grace by a mother’s dying to self in sorrow because of her love for her Son on the Cross, the only means of salvation. Mary is our spiritual mother because she helped restore fallen mankind to the life of grace with God through suffering, which Eve helped lose for all her biological offspring in her selfish pursuit of personal gain and disobedience.

Hence, by using the epithet ‘Woman,’ Jesus is alluding to his mother, Mary, as being the new Eve – the “spiritual mother of all the living” as opposed to Eve, who is the primordial mother of all who are conceived deprived of sanctifying or justifying grace and thus born spiritually dead. (Gen. 3:20). It is before the Fall that Adam refers to his wife as the ‘woman’ (Gen.2:23). So, what Jesus means by transferring this title to his mother is that she is to be a mother to the Disciple as Eve was intended to be before she fell from grace and the preternatural state of innocence.

If Adam and Eve had not sinned against God, they would have passed on spiritual life to their descendants along with immortal physiological life. Since God has decreed that human life should emerge from the conjugal union between a man and a woman, but our primordial parents had forfeited the spiritual gifts He bestowed upon them, God has ordained from all eternity, given the Fall, that spiritual life should be restored through the intimate union between a man (the new Adam) and a woman (the new Eve).

On Golgotha stands the Tree of Life in the form of the Cross as opposed to the tree in the middle of the garden, which bears the forbidden fruit (Gen. 2:15-17). On the Cross hangs the fruit of Mary’s womb (Lk. 1:42), who radically opposes all things that are forbidden by God and offensive to Him (Gen. 3:16-20). Eve manages to entice her husband to partake of the forbidden fruit on the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Mary, on the other hand, cooperates with her Son and offers mankind the fruit of her womb, in whom the Father is well pleased (Mt. 3:17). By partaking of this fruit and being nourished and fortified by its grace, mankind is free of the snares of worldly wisdom and vain pleasures of life that lead to the death of the soul and the loss of true happiness in life with God.

On God’s initiative, the Tree of Life is no longer guarded off-limits by the cherubim with the flaming sword (Gen. 3:24). From now on, the way to the Tree of Life is the Church, the custodian of all saving grace, which has been merited for everyone by the Son of Mary, whose gates are open to all who desire to gain peace and reconciliation with God through the blood of the Cross (Isa. 35:8; 62:10-12; Acts 2:22; Col.1:20; Rev. 22:17). All baptized Christians have cause to leap for joy for the graces they have received from the Son through the Mother’s mediation.

Jesus has ransomed us from death through the blood of the Cross, having reconciled the world to God his heavenly Father (Col. 1:20; 2 Cor. 5:18-19). Yet, with his mother having had a vital share in his victory over the serpent on Golgotha, the Divine validation of her motherhood of all humanity is completed at the foot of the Cross where her soul is pierced because of sinful humanity. The graces Christ has merited for mankind, therefore, are divinely ordained to be dispensed first and foremost through his most Blessed Mother Mary – Our Lady of Sorrows, whose interior suffering made finite temporal satisfaction to God for the sins of the world in union with her divine Son’s infinite temporal and thereby eternal satisfaction.

We see in Luke 1:44 that the infant John the Baptist leaps in his mother’s womb upon the sound of Mary’s greeting, having reached his mother, Elizabeth. The child leaps because it has received the cleansing and healing balm of God’s sanctifying grace in anticipation of his divine calling. What Eve has helped forfeit by seducing her husband into partaking of the forbidden fruit, viz., the life of grace, Mary helps restore by offering the fruit of her blessed womb – the font (life-giving water) of restorative grace. As the saying goes: “To Jesus through Mary.”

Our Blessed Mother “acts as mediatrix between the loftiness of God and the lowliness of the flesh” as mankind’s maternal advocate in vindication of fallen Eve (cf. St. Andrew of Crete (Homily 1, on Mary’s Nativity); she who is the free promised woman “full of grace” and whose “soul magnifies the glory of the Lord” (Lk. 1:28, 46). In the words of Martin Luther, who took the Church to his own: “She is my love, the noble Maid, forget her can I never, Whatever honor men have paid, My heart she has forever!” (Sie ist mir lieb). John the Evangelist expresses this same heartfelt devotion and love in honor of Mary, the handmaid of the Lord and prototype of the Church, which the infant Church possessed and paid to her, the spiritual mother of all Christ’s disciples.

The mystery of Mary as the prototype of the Church and Mediatrix of Grace is like all divine mysteries: shrouded in many obscurities. But it is only in darkness that the sanctifying light of faith may take effect and enlighten the minds and hearts of the faithful over time. For centuries, the Church has gradually put the Marian mosaic work together tile by tile. God’s great masterpiece is a mosaic work that can be seen in its fullness only by observing one tile at a time, for “who can know the mind of God or be His counselor?” (Rom. 11:34). The Church can understand only what God chooses to reveal to her through the Holy Spirit with time (Jn. 16:12-13). There can be no faith – “the evidence for things unseen and hoped for” – if there is gnosis (Heb. 11:1). Thus, “for now [she] sees in a mirror dimly, and then face to face” (1 Cor. 13:12).

The Church must have asked herself countless times with profound reverence like Elizabeth had asked her kinswoman while pondering on the divine mystery of Mary in the economy of salvation: “Whence is this to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?” (Lk. 1:43). What the Church asks of the Lord, she does receive and what she seeks to understand, she does find through the sanctifying light of faith by the working of the Holy Spirit who is with her “forever” (Mt. 7:7; Jn. 14:16). The Church is “the pillar and foundation of the truth” (1 Tim. 3:15), the “unblemished and spotless” bride of Christ in the purity of the womb of her faith and conception of God’s word (Eph. 2:7). She reflects the Virgin Mary’s pure and unblemished womb and her conception of the Divine Word made man because of the purity of her faith and charity as the chaste bride of the Holy Spirit (Lk. 1:35).

Let’s conclude with the words of St. Ambrose: “The Lord appeared in our flesh and in Himself fulfilled the spotless marriage of Godhead and humanity, and since then, the eternal virginity of the life of heaven has found its place among men. Christ’s mother is a virgin and likewise is His bride, the Church” (De Virginibus), and the words of his pupil, St. Augustine: “He has made His Church like to His mother, He has given her to us as a mother, He has kept her for Himself as a virgin. The holy Catholic Church, like Mary, is a virgin ever spotless and a mother ever fruitful” (Sermo 195, 2).

Shall not Zion say:
This man and that man is born in her,
and the Highest himself hath founded her?
Psalm 87, 5

Early Sacred Tradition

“It would be wrong to proclaim the Incarnation of the Son of God
from the holy Virgin, without admitting also His Incarnation in the Church.
Every one of us must therefore recognize His coming in the flesh, by the pure Virgin,
but at the same time recognize His coming in the spirit in each one of us.”
St. Methodius of Philippi
De sanguisusa 8, 2
(ante A.D. 311)

“Being perfect at the side of the Father and incarnate among us,
not in appearance but in truth, he [the Son] reshaped man to perfection
in himself from Mary the Mother of God through the Holy Spirit.”
St. Epiphanius of Salamis
The Man Well-Anchored 75
(A.D. 374)

“The Church is a virgin. Perhaps you will say: If she is a virgin, how can she beget children?
Or, if she does not bear children, how can we claim to be born from her womb? My answer is:
She is both virgin and mother; she is like Mary who gave birth to the Lord. Was not Mary a virgin
when she gave birth, and did she not ever remain a virgin? But the Church also gives birth and yet
remains a virgin she gives birth to Christ Himself, for all who receive baptism are His members.
Does not the Apostle say: ‘You are the body of Christ, member for member’? If then she gives
birth to Christ’s members, she is in every way like Mary.”
St. Augustine, Tract 1, 8
(ante A.D. 430)


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